Episode 41

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26th Jun 2026

Quick Spoon: Proactivity might not be what you think

What does it really mean to be proactive?

In this Quick Spoon, Ross reflects on a key insight from his conversation with business psychologist and author, Dr Joanne Gray.

Many organisations say they want proactive employees, but we often confuse proactivity with simply being helpful or saying yes to every request.

Jo explains that real proactivity is different. It's about spotting opportunities to improve things, taking initiative, and creating positive change before someone asks you to.

Ross explores the difference between reacting to what's already happening and making space to shape what happens next.

Something to Reflect On

Am I spending most of my time responding to what's already happening...

...or am I creating even a small amount of change for the future?

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Transcript

QS3 what is proactivity?

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[00:00:06] But the proactivity is much more about, [00:00:10] you know, you see an opportunity to change something, improve something, to take initiative, and it's, comes from you. It's not necessarily someone asking me and me [00:00:20] agreeing. It comes from me, so it's self-initiated. It is about trying to make improvements, trying to, create something different for the future.

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[00:00:57] Ross: Those things matter, but they're not [00:01:00] necessarily Proactive. Proactivity is different It's noticing something that could be improved and taking the initiative to do something about it. It's [00:01:10] future-focused, and it's change-oriented, and sometimes it's uncomfortable because it involves challenging the status quo.

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Ross McIntosh

I'm Ross McIntosh, a business psychologist, coach and facilitator, with over 30 years' experience helping people thrive at work.

People Soup grew from a simple belief: work is an important part of life, but it doesn't have to come at the expense of our wellbeing, our relationships or our values.

Each episode explores the realities of work, leadership and being human through the lens of behavioural science. Sometimes that's a conversation with an inspiring guest. Sometimes it's a short "Quick Spoon" offering a practical idea you can put into practice straight away.

My work is grounded in Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), an evidence-based approach that helps people develop psychological flexibility: the ability to stay purposeful, adaptable and effective, even when life gets messy.

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Chartered Fellow of the CIPD.
Fellow of the Association for Coaching.
Research collaborator with City St George's, University of London.
Speaker, facilitator and leadership development consultant.
Founder and Host of the People Soup podcast.

When I'm not recording the podcast or working with clients, you'll usually find me reading, cycling, improving my Spanish, or enjoying life in southern Spain with my husband.